Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Where brave soldiers walk

Coming home yesterday I was on the shuttle from the train with a couple who ran in the Marine Corps marathon. The woman was standing and talking to her spouse and men kept trying to offer her a seat - with a sides way glance at her apparently able husband - until he finally said they had run the marathon and she had pulled a muscle and sitting was painful.  Nods all around.  

While I was checking my luggage, the Honor Flight escorts started leading a parade of men in wheelchairs, walkers, canes into the airport, some had family with them, some were alone with the escorts. I thought of the courage and determination it took for them to make the trip.  

Stopped for a bite to eat and to charge my phone and sat next to several tables of soldiers who had just landed on their way home. The young soldiers were laughing and eating and adding to their collection of empty beer bottles on their table.  The waitress was doing her best to mother them, checking on their flights, being slow to bring new drinks.  The young guys were the rowdiest - but not out of control.  Another table of older soldiers in civies - if all black UnderArmor counts as civies - were keeping an eye on the kids.  When in came the couple and sat down.  The kids were boasting of their service, and started doing the "double tap" boast of pride, when the Marathon Marine said something quietly to the tables and all of a sudden they all sat up straight.  All I heard was "Men be sure you make your flight". The kids pulled themselves together and paid their bill.  When along came, the call Hero's passing". And the escorts were pushing two wheelchairs with WW II veterans.  Everyone in the restaurant stood and clapped.

A young family who looked Middle Eastern were sitting in the back with their young children and one asked why were people clapping, and the father said because they were soldiers.  It made me think - how did all of the foreign travelers see what I saw.   I saw pride in our soldiers, waitresses playing Mom, people passing the tables saying thank you, gate agents asking active duty military personnel to board first, standing to honor the men who served in the last Great War.  Many of us aren't sure where we stand on our military actions, present or past, but I think deep,down many of us, as much as we wish there was another option, want to thank those who stand on that wall protecting us from enemies seen and unseen.  

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

An even stranger day

Today I was fired, missed and hired.  More the hubby than me but as of 8pm I am working thru the end of November. Turns out my "boss" didn't like me because I never took direction from him.  Duh.  I was working on projects that weren't his.  Who knows, but despite offers to stay on to hubby I think once they say we have no place for you being forced to ask us back is not a good idea.  Too much craziness.  

Life is full of surprises

And what doesn't kill you makes your stronger.  Or something like that.  Monday, my boss asked if I could meet with him in Charlotte on Wednesday.  Sure - hoping it would be a reasonable time since I had a flight at 2PM back to DC for client.  Despite my best efforts the only time he could meet was 9AM in South Charlotte.  I knew the company was reorganizing and I had never actually met the person I worked for so I thought - make the effort.  So Mike kept Zed overnight for my early morning dash downtown.  Imagine my surprise to discover the purpose of the meeting was to let me go. 

"Oh nothing personal"  we are downsizing, and it is immediate.  What -- I remind him the client has a big move this weekend.  We have been planning it for months, weeks.  Can't you let me finish this move and I understand downsizing, but let me do an orderly transfer of documents, schedules,,,,.  NO.  It is final and immediate.  So he turned the pages to show me how many people were being let go, and what page did he linger on-- the one where hubby's position and age were listed at the top.  I said so you are firing both of us???  Is everyone who came over from Strategic being let go.  Silence. 

So I signed the paper and left.  I called my client counterpart and said, will I won't be there this afternoon, I was let go.  I reassured them I would make sure all of the documents were transferred.  Same story for hubby but he turned in his computer, mine is still here.  It was more of a shock that anything and pretty darn unprofessional.  Who fires their Project Manager in the middle of a project that ends soon anyway.  My last move for this client is the weekend before Thanksgiving and I was looking forward to the time off.  Bruce was ready to quit anyway, the new management was bringing in the people he worked with at his previous gig.  So the handwriting was on the wall, we just didn't expect it mid-project. 

Who knows, today in the shock the client is saying they will hire me directly but that is easier said than done. But as they always say everything happens for a reason.  Just not sure about this one.  Good thing we hadn't rented a house for Thanksgiving! 

The biggest insult -- I even put on pantyhose and a skirt to meet my now former boss!  More to come as the saga goes on. 

Vanity the ultimate gotcha.

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